With A Straight Bat

Blog inspired by something I see: Two things I have noticed look pretty desperate when done on repeat. One: the leader who somehow photobombs every single picture the company or they post online. Two: the award ceremony where eight people stand around one poor recipient, practically drowning them in congratulations while blocking the actual star of the show. Hard to tell who needs the spotlight more.

Watching these rituals got me thinking: the most powerful leaders are often the ones who know when to be invisible. They disappear when the team succeeds. No grand speeches, no selfies at the finish line. Just a quiet nod, maybe even a sly grin, and then they’re gone.

Contrast that with today’s corporate fashion show, where leaders would rather be Taylor Swift on the Eras Tour – front row, spotlight glued to them, rehearsed “humble” wave included.

Stage-crashing bosses

You know how this goes. The team pulls off a borderline miracle … product launch ahead of schedule, a mega-client signed, or a fire drill put out before the client even noticed the smoke. The team is surviving on caffeine, WhatsApp memes, and biscuits stolen from the office pantry. And then… here comes the boss. Suddenly they are everywhere: on the all-hands call, on the company LinkedIn, on the client dinner invite. The story shifts from “what the team pulled off” to “what the leader navigated.”

Like a human watermark. Always faintly stamped in the corner.

Why invisibility is underrated

The leaders you never forget are not the ones holding the microphone at every townhall. They are the ones you later realize had been pulling strings quietly so the rest of us could look brilliant.

It is like Wi-Fi. When it’s working, nobody notices. When it’s gone, everybody swears at the router.

Why the spotlight is addictive

Of course, the spotlight is tempting. Applause is a drug. A big post with 500 likes? Instant dopamine. A client name-dropped in your keynote? Feels good. But here is the irony: the more a leader scrambles to be visible, the more invisible their actual influence becomes. Because the team is too busy rolling their eyes.

How invisible leadership looks

Invisible leaders are not checked out. They’re just operating differently. They open doors, then step aside. They coach quietly, then let others present the work. They rearrange the backstage, so the orchestra sounds perfect, but never demand to conduct.

Ed Catmull at Pixar did this brilliantly. He guarded the creative process but let the directors shine. Indra Nooyi used to credit her team and family in the same breath. That is leadership that travel, and it sticks because it is rare.

The irony we keep missing

Here is the corporate comedy: so many leaders want to be both the Yoda and the Luke Skywalker. Mentor and main character. Sage and star. But it does not work that way.

If you really want to be remembered, let your team shine. People will always remember the boss who gave them the mic, not the one who snatched it back.

And if you still want a spotlight? Buy a karaoke machine. At least there, no one will mind.

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